Assalamualaikum and Hi.
It have been quite long since I last updated my blog. I'm not really into blog, to be honest. But somehow, tonight I felt like writing something.
I don't do product review and such. Well at least, not for the moment.
*background music of Beauty & The beast Piano Collection*
Shall I write about love? I don't know. Love is complicated. Or... human make it complicated. Love can be near, yet so far. It would be a lie, if I told you I never had a crush before. Well, crushes. Hahaha
Crush can be a yay or nay. Usually it ends up in nay. (But remember, it is NOT always a nay. You might get lucky) It's okay, we're in reality. Sometimes it's hurt, sometimes it doesn't. It depends on how deep your feeling for him and how well you handle with rejection. Fairy tales do happens. It's just that, it haven't knock my door or yours. So, chill. =)
How to handle rejection?
First, truth hurt. OUCH! It is undeniable. You may cry or laugh or stares at the empty wall. Maybe it is a good therapy for you. But don't take it too long. Or you'll miss other opportunities in life.
Second, tell a friend or more. I know it is embarrassing, like total not cool! But, good friends will always be by your side to listen and who knows, someday you guys even might gonna make a joke bout it.
Third, do something that you enjoy the most. Go shopping or reads up all books in the library (er?). Do something that will distract you away from thinking bout it. No lie, you can't forget bout it like 100%, unless you are total knocked out!
Fourth, Dress-To-Impress! or in another word, improve yourself to be better. (I fail to see the correlation between those two. My bad!) Spot your weaknesses and try to change. Okay, I know, if you fall in love, people have to accept who we are, accept each others weaknesses and bla bla bla. Well, people, that is marriage! Honestly, you have to be better and wiser, who knows you might get a better guy. Failure teach us to do better in future..in order to hit a jackpot! Yay!
I think 4 is enough. Haha. Well, I'm not Dr.Love or a love expert. I'm learning to be better and wiser. Actually I might have tips No.5, but... it is a bit weird. Which is...
Fifth, get a new crush! Yay! Yup, that is one of a good way to move on. You'll end up, creating a list of crushes till you find Mr. Right. Yay..... But the best is, puts your heart to your Creator.
Girls, I'm not telling that being in a relationship with your crush is a good idea. But that might be mainly the aim for most people. Just get married. Haha (Easy to talk than done!) Relationship doesn't promise anything. Well, even in marriage, people might end up in divorce. But, doesn't marriage makes you feel a bit secure?
Oh my god, what does marriage have to do with crush? I totally have a mental breakdown right now. Marriage & crush is much much more complicated... it is a longer journey. So, I won't touch bout it. Lalala.
Well, that is just my piece of mind. *yawn* I better get some sleep. Ciao~! Assalamualaikum :3
